Archive for January, 2009

28
Jan
09

Twins’ Birthday Celebration

Last Saturday, we went to Carapungo, Emily’s house to celebrate the twins’ birthday.. which is very near to Martha (Emily’s mum)’s birthday. So all three celebrated together, but it was really more of a kids’ celebration of course.. haha..

It was the first time we attended a kids’ birthday party (For me, first time in my entire life, even in SG I’ve never been to one!) and it was quite fun and interesting. The house was well decorated with many Minnie Mice (The invitation was a Minnie Mouse too) and confetti and balloons. The cake was huge, and there were many games – A race where the kids use their mouths to hold a spoon and balance the egg, musical chairs, dance game (of course, it’s Ecuador….) and the final Piñata which is really chaotic.

The Piñata is a box (in this case, shaped as a Minnie) and is filled with sweets and little toys. There are strings at the bottom of the box and when the kids tug/pull on the string, the box opens and all the confetti and sweets and toys fall to the ground and it’s a GRAB-AS-MANY-AS-YOU-CAN fight for all. hahaha.. VERY CHAOTIC… after that they played with the confetti on the floor and the whole place was littered with confetti!!

Daniela, the grand-daughter of Carmen, a visitor to our church, was very sweet. She kept giving me the toys and sweets that she won and told me that “What I give you is yours”, even though I wanted to give the sweets back to her. :) The children are very cariñosos (affectionate), though I do not know most of them very well, they dragged me along to play with them and we had lots of fun – them hitting me with balloons and me tickling them back in return. Woah… very tiring to play with kids.. they are full of energy!

At the end of the party, each kid was given a goody-bag to take home. It’s a hand-made Minnie Mouse truck made of carton, and filled with toys and candies. They had extra so Emily gave Tim and I one each. We in turn gave the sweets and one of the carriages to our Pilates instructor and Spanish teacher as they have children who would appreciate them more. :) We kept one of the carriages and we’re using it as a pencil holder now. :)

Here are some pictures of the tiring but fun day:

27
Jan
09

Happy CNY!

Happy Chinese New Year to all! :)

Chinese New Year is rather quiet here in Ecuador and there are not much celebrations. There are quite alot of chifas (chinese restaurants) but no official Chinatown or even a street of Chinese.. they are everywhere so there’s no consolidated celebration.

On Sunday after service, we had our own mini-reunion dinner with Laoban and Laoban niang. They actually closed shop at 3.30pm to wait for us! We were very touched because this hardworking couple has never closed shop even for vacations before! This year, they decided to close shop and celebrate with us for the night! :)

We brought our rice-cooker there to use as a steamboat, and shared our bak kwa (bbq meat), pineapple tarts, shrimp paste rolls and pork floss with them. They provided the ingredients for the steamboat – alot of seafood! Crabs, prawns, octopus, vegetables, toufu.. and also steamed fish and deep-fried fish! Yummy!
It was a good time of sharing too. Lao ban actually invited ST to go visit a chinese church with him! What an opportunity! :)

That night, after returning home, we also video-conferenced with our families in SG. Held a 3-way conference with ST’s parents and elder brother. We also video-conferenced for the first time with PR’s grandma! Monday night, we also spoke to the Peru team and wished each other happy CNY on MSN video-conference.. haha..

每逢佳节倍思亲 “Mei feng jia jie bei si qin”.. hehe.. CNY makes me miss home more, especially because it’s a quiet season here. But thank God for good friends, the internet for connecting home, and also for the goodies that our SG friends sent over. Tim loves the cashewnutz.. I love the pineapple tarts and shrimp paste rolls.. and we both love the bbq pork and pork floss.. (And so do laoban and laobanniang!)

Here’s wishing all of you in SG, as well as all our Hope companions, and family and friends all around the world, a wonderful, prosperous, joy-filled new year of the Bull! Enjoy the time with your family and friends!

25
Jan
09

30 people at service today

Today we had a lot of new friends joining us for church service. 8) Praise the Lord!

Our brothers and sisters have been inviting friends and we see the highest attendance in our church in January since Weeleng and Wanphing returned to Singapore. A number of our friends seem to like the service and said that they will come back again. Looks like we need a new place for church service soon. Today the place was fully packed. Do pray for us that God will open door for a new location which is centralized, affordable and big enough for about 50 people. :) Pray with us too, that the new friends will continue coming to hear the Word of God and grow with us! Pray too, that our members will continue to grow strong!

Another encouragement, today after service, some members volunteered themselves to serve more consistently in a ministry, responding to these few weeks’ sermons on Building Strong Foundations. Today we challenged people to become strong disciples and not just believers. Thank God that people were impacted. :) Now that Josh and Hannah have returned to Singapore, we see the coreteam serving harder, and it is wonderful to have more people joining us in serving God to the max! The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few! We need more to join in the harvesting! :)

Thank you Lord for the privilege of serving you and thank you for inspiring us to love you more! :) And thank you God, for helping us to grow as we serve you!

24
Jan
09

The gigantic moth

This was the first time PR and I saw such a big moth in our lives. It was black and slightly bigger than my palm. I think it was around 25cm or more from wing to wing… We were shocked by it when it was flying around in our house. (There are very little ants and no cockcroaches in the houses in Quito so we seldom see insects actually…This is indeed a shock. hehe) Finally, it stopped flying and rested on a towel in the kitchen. We were glad and quickly closed the door of the kitchen.

After that, we went out to buy groceries and bought pesticide at the same time. The first thing we did when we reached home was to check the location of the moth again. We opened the kitchen door slightly and saw the moth resting on a box in the kitchen. We were rather afraid but I went into the kitchen anyway with the pesticide. PR went to take the camera to capture the moment.

I sprayed at the moth for the first time and we were surprised that there was not much effect. We waited for a while as we spied on it. It shifted itself on the box uncomfortably, up and down… I went in for the second time and took aim again. This time I sprayed directly at the moth and it was a long spray. It flew out of the window and we believed that it was afraid of the smell. Thank God that it was out of our house. Hopefully this is the last time we are going to see any moths in our house. :)

23
Jan
09

Obama’s inaugural address

Below is the link to Obama’s inaugural address, quite an impressive one 8) :

http://my.barackobama.com/page/community/post/stateupdates/gGxHZR

Hopefully positive change will take place, though it will take some time.

I like what he said in the header of the website above:

“I am asking you to believe. Not just in my ability to bring about real change in Washington… I’m asking you to believe in yours.”

I think all of us should believe that we have the abilities to bring about real change wherever we are, may it be in family or workplace or the country. And furthermore, with God’s empowerment, we will be able to make a real difference in the society and shine for Him. :)

22
Jan
09

Mandarin lessons starting in Feb!

Yesterday I went to Inlingua Language Institute to discuss about the new Mandarin lessons starting in Feb. It is exciting because this is the first time the language institute is offering Chinese courses. 8) They asked me to look through some of their Chinese teaching materials and we discussed how long it will take for the beginners’ class. We agreed that this pilot project will last for 2 months and we will launch more Chinese classes if it is successful. I will be teaching on Monday and Thursday, twice a week.

Pray for this pilot project to be a success. The pay for teaching Chinese is higher than teaching English and it will be financial blessing for us. PR said that she can teach basic Chinese too if there are more students interested to learn Chinese in the future, while I can teach the higher level students. Meanwhile, both of us are still teaching English in the language institute. Sometimes we go to companies to teach English. :)

It has been interesting for us so far as we have different kinds of students. There are some high level managers whom we have to teach and sometimes it can be quite an eye-opener to talk to these people. It really increases my exposure as a teacher because I only got to teach secondary school kids in the past in Singapore. Now I have to watch the way I dress and speak proper English. There was once a country manager invited me to listen to his presentation in a hotel and I was supposed to give comments after that to help him improve his English. Before this presentation, I was teaching him about presentation skills. It was something new for me too. I was reading up more about presentation skills before teaching him. All these teaching experiences were unique and memorable, surely good learning experiences too. Thank God for the opportunities to learn while teaching! :)

21
Jan
09

Regarding Black-out in Quito

Hmm.. now we know the reason for the black out!

Luis explained to us that a lightning struck one of the main electrical plants in Ecuador, that processes the electricity that Ecuador buys from Columbia! There are other plants in each province, but this is one of the main ones that conducts electricity to the other smaller plants in the provinces. As such, the black-out was a huge one! I think about 13 provinces were without electricity that night! Woah! That’s serious! I wonder whether Guayaquil was affected and whether the planes could land there that night… If not, where do they go??

I would like to learn of these Ecuadorian national news and current affairs more…one of my new year resolutions is to start reading Ecuadorian newspapers in spanish! Yesterday, ST and I watched one of a set of three videos we bought from the Christian bookstore. It’s Joshua Harris’ “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” made into a video and it’s the spanish version. I was rather glad that I could understand most of it.. :) Thank God for the progress.. But I think there’s definitely much more to improve. The language of newspapers is more formal and there are much more themes with jargon/vocab that I’m not sure of. But I do hope to improve quickly! I told my Spanish teacher that I hope to be able to translate english-spanish on the fly, simultaneously by the end of the year! God help me! :)

20
Jan
09

Light bulb shopping spree

5 out of 7 light bulbs in the living room went out yesterday, so PR and I went on a light bulb shopping spree. We searched for the right kind of light bulbs in a few places and when we found them, we bought 10 of them. Hopefully, these 10 lights bulbs will be able to last us for quite a while. 8)

19
Jan
09

Reunion Dinner

PR and I are looking forward to the reunion dinner with the bosses of a Chinese restaurant this Sunday. They are our good friends, introduced by Weeleng and Wanphing. We are going to have steamboat dinner together. PR and I plan to bring the Bak Kwa, pineapple tarts and cashew nuts to share with them. Think we will have a good time celebrating Chinese New Year together in Ecuador. Thank God that we do not have to give Ang Bao this year! :)

17
Jan
09

A costly parcel…

We are beginning to understand the pain and frustration felt by the previous church planting teams in South America…

Compare super-efficient Singapore to Latin America bureaucracy and whatever paperwork..

Our first encounter was with our bank accounts that took about 2-3weeks to settle. Then the internet people made us rather perturbed…. and this time round, it was the Correo – the postal service. This is going to be a long entry again as it’s an account of the tireless journey we took to collect our parcel.

We received a letter asking us to collect a parcel from Singapore this week. Wow! :) How lovely! Thank you guys! Despite all the frustration the collection caused, we are still filled with thanks for your kind thoughts and lovely CNY goodies!

Apparently, there is only one post-office you can collect parcels from in the whole of Quito, you can’t ask them to deliver it anywhere else. It’s in sector Santa Clara, about US$2 taxi fare from our house. (Extremely cheap compared to Singapore yes, but every little bit adds up to our total expenditure yeah?) First time we are going there,we weren’t sure where it was so we took the taxi. And the opening hours are 8-1pm, 2-3pm. ST and I have classes in the morning and early afternoon so we reached the post office around 2.30pm. But we made sure we had all the documents needed before we went, being law-abiding Singaporeans and wanting to minimize any possibility of a hiccup happening.

First sight: A lot of people sitting and standing around in the post office. A kind soul (also a foreigner) told me which counter to go to.. We went to the counter, with our requested 2 copies of ST’s cedula, and paid a US$1 levy for the one parcel that we were receiving. He gave us our queue number – 45.
Took a seat and heard the guy in the room starting calling out numbers… 16…. 17… 18…. Then I heard a lady in front complaining in spanish that she had been waiting for more than an hour.. Gosh! I took a quick count of the people in the room waiting.. about 20+… that makes sense that we are 45! There’s a television for you to watch while waiting.. guess they are used to queues…

We waited for about an hour for our number to be called.. praying hard in the meantime that we would be able to get our parcel that day because we didn’t want to come again! But it was already 4 pm! (Now it figures why they say the closing time is 3pm.. because the queue probably lasts till 5pm…) Meanwhile a group of ladies behind us started making some angry noises…. Apparently, the cut off number for the day was 47. And they were numbers 50+. But no one had made any announcements about the cut off number or that they were to come again the next day! These were some angry women indeed! They started arguing with the person in charge.. and demanded to get their package… guess who won?

Our turn came and we followed the person into the room to ’see’ our package.. He slit it open to check before us and we saw a glimpse of.. erm… maggi mee? hahaha… mee goreng flavor.. We thought we could collect but nope.. He asked us to go out and wait for our number to be called again. Gotta pay taxes!

Another lady called us about 5 minutes later. She keyed in ST’s details and told us we need to pay US$24 in taxes! Wow.. Hmm.. at the corner of my eye, I noticed that ST’s passport number was wrong… she had keyed 878… instead of S79…. I thought it didn’t matter so we went off to pay at the small bank counter window that they have in the post office. The unfriendly lady just simply told us “Cerrado!” which means “Closed!”. We asked what we should do and she told us to go back to ask the people in the office.

The people in the office told us we needed to go to Banco Internationales.. at Av 10 de Agosto.. near to the post-office. We ran out of the post office, worried that the bank would close before we reached… asked some people for directions and turns out Av 10 de Agosto is 3 streets down the hill…. Ahhh! Walked as fast as we could.. Reached the bank at 4.15. No queue! Happiness..! But nope.. wrong counter. Had to wait for the lady in the cubicle, who thankfully turned out to be quite nice..

Unfortunately, she told us that the post office had keyed in the wrong information and we have to go change it before we can pay! “WHAT?!” I ran out of the bank… after 30 secs of brisk-walking, discovered it could be the passport number! So I ran back and asked if I could have it changed in the bank since I knew what was wrong. But no…. it has to be changed at the post-office. So OFF I RAN again… 3 streets UPHILL this time..

Panting when I reached the post-office, I wanted to sound frustrated but not angry and unreasonable. Told the person they had our information wrong and they should change it, if not we couldn’t pay and we couldn’t get our parcel! One of the guys told me “oh.. this is wrong probably because you are foreigners and you don’t have the Ecuadorian cedula…” I was perturbed by his comment. I told him we DO HAVE a cedula and asked him to return us the form so I could show him the 2 copies of cedula they had asked for and attached to our form. Meanwhile, he kept encouraging me to come again the next day. “Is this not the cedula?” I asked. “Oh, but because you are foreigners, the number is different.” I told him “But this is our passport number and it’s printed and certified on our cedula which is printed here! It’s NOT a different number, it’s TYPED wrongly!” Finally he understood what I meant.. but the lady who keyed in the information overheard and said that she had followed what we had written on the form. I thought, Ok, perhaps it’s our fault because we didn’t write clearly… The man continued to tell me that because the form was already printed and the information already registered, they couldn’t change the info for me. I think I must have shot shocked glares at him – meaning to convey the msg “It’s your system and you can’t change the information?! I want my parcel…” After 5 seconds, they gave me a “we really can’t do anything” look and told us that their internet service was down so they couldn’t make the change for me (even if they wanted to). There was a guy sitting in front of the counter.. with the number 47… and he had been waiting for half an hour for his piece of tax paper. And kept telling me to come back again tomorrow because then, we could pay at the little bank counter without changing our information on the tax form.

I gave up. Walked back down to the bank to meet ST and took the time to calm myself down.

Went back again the next day and thank God the process was quite fast this time round. There were still a few perturbing incidents though..
1) They asked us to photostat a copy of the bank receipt at one of the shops opposite.. No idea why I need to do this since I didn’t need a copy of it.
2) We discovered that they charged us tax for ROPAS (Clothes)… when all we had in the box was dry food! The tax is about 10% more and when we asked the guy, AGAIN, he defended by saying that 1. It doesn’t cost too much more. 2. You’ve already paid so we can’t do anything about it now. You could have changed it earlier. (the words were super small on the tax form.. who would have noticed…? We only realized it after they gave us their written receipt with the item written as ROPAS.)

This is what we paid in total for the parcel.. $4 (Taxi fare first day, to and fro) + $1 (post office levy) + $24 (tax) + $0.70 (bank service charge) + $0.30 (photocopies) + $4 (Taxi fare second day, to and fro) = US$34 which amounts to ~S$50. I believe our dear friends in Singapore paid S$103 for the airfare of the parcel and this not inclusive of the cost of the goodies in the box.

What a costly parcel…

All in all, I think we were really frustrated by the whole troublesome bureaucracy and also the defensive and nonchalant attitude of the officials. Every one who was waiting there had a frustrated look and a “this-is-how-it-is-terrible” look. I begin to understand too, why Ecuadorians have been telling me of their lack of trust in the government officials or public service. Seems many of the regulations are put up just to earn more money, and the officials aren’t really there to serve….

Ecuador… is such a beautiful country with quite a number of resources.. but yet unable to grow strong economically for the lack of good governance and trustworthy civil service… It is so difficult to move on when internally, so many things are tying you down…
One more thing I’ve learnt. I’ve grown to appreciate the efficiency and strength of the Singapore government much more. :)




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